This week I’m looking to the sunflowers for advice again. Nature almost always knows what we need. If you are feeling unmoored by grief, resist the urge to outrun it. Slow down. Look it in the face, acknowledge that the pain is proof your heart is full of love. If you feel frozen or numbed by starving children you never met, the loss of a loved one or part of yourself —sit for a moment in that space. There is no better reminder of this to me than sunflowers. I used to love them because I thought