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Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse | The Gottman Institute: Relationship Behaviors that Lead to Failure
Certain negative communication styles are so lethal to a relationship that Dr. John Gottman calls them the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. They predict relationship failure with over 90% accuracy if the behavior isn't changed. So, what can you do? Practice these four research-based antidotes to save your relationship from certain destruction ...
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