Oh, the guilt, the regrets, the remorse. The woulda, coulda, shouldas. The if onlys. The why didn’t I’s? Is it possible to lose a loved one and not suffer from guilt, regret, remorse, or all three?

I wonder how many times I have heard the phrase “coulda, shoulda, woulda”? To refresh your memory, often whenever someone regrets not having done something and they share it with a friend, the friend ...